LadyBea, I’m so sorry you lost your son. (((((cyber hug)))))
26 Mar 14 by member: Deb_N
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26 Mar 14 by member: timconard
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26 Mar 14 by member: myawethinTICself
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Life can sometimes seem so unfair. I deeply sympathize with your loss and am so proud that you're choosing to channel your energy into better health.
26 Mar 14 by member: LuC2
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Take it slow and easy , lots of good thoughts going your way.
26 Mar 14 by member: Char60
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Nothing to forgive. Teary.
26 Mar 14 by member: northernmusician
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I'm crying as I read this. I'm guessing that it is healthier to HAVE those feelings than to hold them in or be in denial. Your niece did a great thing for you. May those good memories you focus on tomorrow give your tears some respite.
26 Mar 14 by member: gilliansings
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cry if you want to . we are always there for you.
27 Mar 14 by member: namramn1
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27 Mar 14 by member: puhpine
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I really identify with you about your Son. My Sons b-day and the date he passed away always pokes me. I'm sorry your Son was taken in such a way. Mine was 16, and killed due to another driver was on crack...the car my Son was in, all 4 died. 2 girls, 2 boys on the highway. Were in a club we never wanted to be in. It's ok. We will see our children when our time comes. It's gonna be ok!
27 Mar 14 by member: 1bluetree
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Thinking of you today, tons of love and prayers. You are such an amazingly strong woman
27 Mar 14 by member: Annabelle3117
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I pray that those good memories you think about will drive out the bad. Best wishes for you.
27 Mar 14 by member: jwill77nc2
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I am sorry for your lose. I lost my dad and my older sister within a couple of years but I worst lost was losing my best friend of 23 years. He died on my birthday 2 years ago and I still miss him and now all we have are the memories of good times and I know I still have days that I cry over all three of them. So you take your day and remember the son that was taken from you and we are here for you if you need us.
27 Mar 14 by member: cyd69
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Bea, I am so sorry to hear about your loss, and I am so sorry that you are hurting. Please, take the time to remember your son..honor his life, his memory today and celebrate his life.
27 Mar 14 by member: notjune1
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You're an amazing woman. You've overcome so much and continue on with your life. He would truly be proud of his mom. Be well and be blessed Lady Bea. Keep up the good work.
27 Mar 14 by member: ClassicRocker
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Oh Bea, I wish I could be there for you in person. You have overcome so much and came out such a positive person, in spite of it. Cry if you have to, it is not weak to cry over the loss of a child.
27 Mar 14 by member: Barbara4572
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I am sooo sorry to hear that LadyBea!!! You know we are here for you always and support you during this difficult time and reflection on such a memorial day. Your post has made us all have your son in our thoughts. :))
27 Mar 14 by member: lovergirl654
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Sending warm hugs and a hope that you are able to concentrate on the good memories. Know that we are here for you, and yes your son would be proud to have a Mom like you. You are strong and kind. XOXO
27 Mar 14 by member: Lynn1958
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So sad to hear about your loss. Grieving is natural, so there is no need to apologize for your deep feelings of loss. Tomorrow is another day, and hopefully it will shine brighter for you. Today is what today is. Celebrate his life, and your love for him. You are on my heart today.
27 Mar 14 by member: Cjsong
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Ditto what Gillian and Cj said. Grieve as you must, without guilt. That is an incredible loss. When you finish crying this time you can remember the beautiful moments and celebrate them. Just be careful to not get stuck in the past. Get good help if you need it. You are not alone, even the pain will ebb, but you will always be your son's mom. Take care, Bea!
27 Mar 14 by member: MrsTofu
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