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Shame on me! Lol I gained weight. I actually gained TWO pounds because halfway through the week I had lost a pound and didnt record it. I know exactly why and I will say I know the catalysts. Over the wknd my hubbys niece's 2 terrors came from NY and we were basically just told we were babysitting them. Their mom is a real B****!!!! I dont like her, and her kids... while I do love them... Are m.o.n.s.t.e.r.s. the 9yr old. Is the worst. He steals our stuff. He messes with my toddler. And he actually smacked my 13yr old in the face. My 13yr old could have kicked his butt.... But my kids are not like that. I have pretty awesome kids! But I told my son... Next time... He better give that kid a black and blue eye if he ever tries to touch my son again. My hubby wont tell the mom, he told me to let it go. Look I am tired of this crap and especially of their mom... She needs a good hard butt whopping and I wouldn't mind being the one to do it.... My army and karate training should come in handy against that wilderbeast!!!! (Shes alot taller and bigger than me and a roughneck from NY so... Shes actually pretty scary hahaha ). but seriously guys.... I Would never show up at someones house and throw my kids at them to watch. That is rude... family or not. She does this randomly and once even left them with us for 2 weeks in the summer. Anyhow this is no excuse for my weight gain... I am an emotional eater... And I very emotionally ate ALOT of really unhealthy crap over the wknd. My measurements are good though. Arms 12 (same) waist 37 (same) hips 40.5 (minus .5) thighs 23(same)
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166.7 lb
Lost so far: 14.8 lb.
Still to go: 41.7 lb.
Diet followed poorly.
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gaining 0.9 lb a week
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Wow, that is awful. My family would never do anything like that unless it was an emergency and then they would be very gracious about it. If it;s your husbands relatives, then he needs to say something. Otherwise, you may need to stand up and say something. People can't walk on you unless you let them. Maybe find a way to tactfully tell her that you don't mind a visit, but please call in advance to see if you have plans. I also wouldn't tell your 13 year old to give the 9 year old a black eye (don't know if you were kidding). Because they could bring charges against your child. But I would not put up with anyone hurting my children. That is a tough position to be in. In the end, it's your house, your rules. Next time she visits, make plans and take your kids out and let your husband deal with it. Maybe he will get the message. I do feel you for. You can pick your friends but not your family. Now get back on program. Looking good is the best revenge, lol!
25 Feb 14 by member: Suzi161
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Lol im just venting :-) I would never attack their mom (except in my mind... in which case I have done it too many times to count) also I really did tell my son that but we were joking and I know he never would because that is his personality... but my teenage daughter is another story. She came home from a sleepover and chased that boy around the house unil he locked himself in the bathroom. The thing is I do not let people take advantage of me and I speak my mind good or bad. The exception is when it comes to his family. He has a family because everyone takes advantage of him and he wont let me tell them whats really on my mind. Anyway you are right!!! As soon as they left sunday night I felt like I had control again of my diet. Im ln track again and this next weighin will be much better! :-) :-) :-)
25 Feb 14 by member: Jess cheng
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This is your husbands neice and her two kids? Oh my, id pack my crap and go, if hubby wants to bend over and kiss neices ass, then hes more than welcome. Thats just me though :-) onward to better days, right?
25 Feb 14 by member: Annabelle3117
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Ooops. I meant to write "he has a large family and its hard because everyone takes advantage of him"
25 Feb 14 by member: Jess cheng
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So sorry to hear that. Stress is a major diet killer.
25 Feb 14 by member: Lydbi45
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sometimes I get really lonely being a single mum with a tiny family. Then I remember what my exs' family were like and I breathe a sigh of relief. Not for all the tea in china could I tolerate the way they behaved and the arguments it caused (he always took their side) The perfect mix would be able to have the best of both worlds....or an in-law family that lived in another country lol. Sorry you gained as few pounds, but at least you didn't lose your sanity or temper ;)
25 Feb 14 by member: lisaappleton
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Jeez, Jess, sounds like a awful woman and ( hate tosay it " kids need a good slap, but mainly good guidance and manners taught) not surprised about the extra pound, was probably stress, no doubt was, well done to your kod's for dealing with it all so well, and you, it could have been 6 pounds xx
25 Feb 14 by member: budhlia
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