Ruhu's Journal, 05 June 2014

Celebrating each day… celebrating life… I love the reminder from Geneen Roth, and our Bella! Yesterday's wake and then a sad, but moving, movie last night reinforced how important it is to live each day to the fullest. Enjoy who we are and what we have. As I'd mentioned yesterday, the wake was for an acquaintance, a very close friend of a very close friend of ours. We'd see her and her family occasionally at social functions. I hadn't seen her kids in years. She has a son the same age as my youngest and a daughter a year younger. They'd grown so since I last saw them… so grown up & trying to hold it together. Her DH had grayed and aged, understandably. She was 57 and passed after a long battle with breast cancer. She was an active community volunteer and they a really lovely family. As sad as it was, it was a true celebration of her life.

Then last night as DH was out at a business dinner after the wake, I watched a movie called One True Thing with Meryl Streep as a mother dying from cancer, and the impact on her family. Again, another reminder that life can be shorter than we'd like, so really live it… love it…. enjoy it! More good thought-provoking moments reinforcing why it's so important to live mindfully & fully.

I've been to my workout & have another golf lesson later this afternoon, weather permitting. We have hard rain in the northeast this morning, but it may clear out in time for the lesson to go on. I'm liking the golf… more than it's liking me! DH and both boys are taking some lessons too & getting more into it, so I don't want to be left behind. Luckily, it's a sport that you can do with others even when they are leaps & bounds better.

So before I get farther into my day, I'll pray --

God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.

Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
Taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
Forever in the next.
Amen.

And for this one day and through each one meal, moment, bite, thought & emotion, I'll pray, breathe, log, journal, express & truly live my way! I'm so very grateful for each of loving you, my family & IRL friends, another day to truly celebrate with the health & wealth to live this life I love! xoxox

Diet Calendar Entries for 05 June 2014:
1257 kcal Fat: 42.99g | Prot: 106.00g | Carb: 129.00g.   Breakfast: Lactaid 100% Lactose Free Fat Free Milk, Primal Nutrition Primal Fuel - Vanilla Coconut Creme, Spectrum Naturals Organic Coconut Oil, Harmless Harvest 100% Raw Coconut Water. Lunch: Evolve Greek Kefir, Mann's Sunny Shores Rainbow Salad, Whole Foods Market Avocado Vinaigrette Dressing, Ralphs Whole Raw Almonds. Dinner: Trader Joe's Ratatouille, Maggiano's Fresh Grilled Asparagus, Stew Leonard's Healthy Vegetable Soup, Trader Joe's grilled chicken strips, Best Yet Mixed Berries. Snacks/Other: Primal Nutrition Primal Fuel - Vanilla Coconut Creme, Lactaid 100% Lactose Free Fat Free Milk. more...
1740 kcal Activities & Exercise: Resting - 15 hours, Sleeping - 8 hours, Calisthenics (heavy, e.g. pushups) - 1 hour. more...

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Always hard to hear of a mother leaving her children behind too soon. But, as you said, we can take it as a reminder to live each day to the fullest and treasure the little things. Glad you and your DH and sons are enjoying the golf. I know I would stink at it, but good for you for wanting to have a hobby in common to spend more time with them. I did that with Pokemon back in the day and now the comic book movies like Captain America and Ironman. They wouldn't be my first choice, but I'll learn more about them for my sons! 
05 Jun 14 by member: gilliansings
I believe I saw that movie years ago and it was a touching reminder. So glad you're celebrating your life. I read a little thing this morning that advised 'smile as soon as you wake and it will improve your mood for the day' and I am going to figure out a way to get that going ((when I'm still sleepy)).  
05 Jun 14 by member: FullaBella
So sorry for your loss, Ruth. This has been a crazy year.  
06 Jun 14 by member: Helewis

     
 

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