lovingmomma's Journal, 12 June 2012

I am so excited for you! You're kicking butt and taking names. Has your hubby noticed a change? My DH doesn't say much, just kind of mumbles "oh, that's nice" but I am OK with that... I'm not losing weight for him, and if I put my motivation in his hands, I doubt I will achieve my goal. Love your before & after pics... keep it up! 

My hubby is kind of the same way, he doesn't even like to talk about it. I think maybe I was talking about it too much, so he told me he just didn't want to hear about it, not to be mean, but it was just making him crazy! But he has gone and bought me new outfits a few times, and has made offhand comments :) And he doesn't mind anymore if I talk about it, but I make sure to not talk about it to much! I think it is so easy for it to be so completely life consuming. I know my husband is proud of me for sticking with it, and doing a great job. I think he sort of thought I would fail, since it has happened before. He is a natural born skinny person and never really gets how hard it is. You definitly have to do it for yourself, and no one else. Although my hubby was a grat motivation for me looking back at it. I wanted to prove to him that I could do it, plus he was the only one that made me realize the only one stopping me from success was myself. He would always tell me that "if I really wanted it I would do it" which always made me angry until I realized he was oompletely right! And it dosn't hurt that I want him to look at me and think "WOW" Give your hubby time, he may come around! And thank you for the compliment!