Strangelyslimmer's Journal, 07 August 2015

Do you have any interests that you could develop by joining a club or group of some sort, or any skill you'd like to learn? How about dancing, that's social and active, and don't tell me you have two left feet! A lot of people do, but that's what lessons are for 😀 

check out your community centre to see if you can find an exercise group or get into running? 

I'm not that gregarious an individual. Am friendly enough and mean well. Maybe I just come over the wrong way. The last two relationships I have had have turned I to fairly unpleasant situations. Talk about one bitten twice shy etc. Lol 

Well, you seem to think you should go out sometimes. I think you're probably right. It's good to build friendships outside of work. Unless you really are a loner? I'm not sure there's really any such thing, though. I think pretty much everyone likes to have someone to talk things over with - just like we are doing on-line right now. Anyway you now have some suggestions, but maybe you just need to ponder it yourself? Have a look in the local paper or local websites, see what's on offer. Something might take your fancy! 

I appreciate the advice! Maybe I will bump into something I have been a member of health clubs and gyms and the like with various notions of "success" in the past I always seem to roll a proverbial seven with any relationships 

Well, good luck with that! Relationships are difficult. They require a lot of give and take, and compromise. It would take a lot of working at if you're used to being able to do anything you want, anytime you want. You also have to find the right person, of course, but you never know if it really is the right person for quite a number of years. I think it's a bit of a lottery, really! Good luck with that, too!