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I do not do well when I don’t log my food.
I do not do well when I don’t log my food.
I do not do well when I don’t log my food.
I do not do well when I don’t log my food.
Brb. Gonna go find a chalkboard to write that on until I learn my lesson.
Got into a ‘funk’ again that I’m working on getting out of. Feeling pretty good today, so going to work hard to stick to the plan.
Think I’m fueled by anger though at the moment. Went out with some coworkers last night, and I shared the latest awful message I got from guy (which I don’t even want to get into right now because I’ll get all mad all over again). So one of my coworkers starts defending the guy, and says that if I don’t want to stay single, I need to be more feminine and reserved and way more thin, because since I’m already so big and tall, I’m “threatening” and “masculine”, and biking makes me a “tomboy”, and having a successful career and making a hefty salary is “threatening” because the guy doesn’t feel like I need him for support.
I just can’t even right now.
All I know is I would never want to be with the type of guy he described, lol!
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198.0 lb
Lost so far: 52.0 lb.
Still to go: 28.0 lb.
Diet followed poorly.
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Diet Calendar Entries for 08 June 2016:
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1550 kcal
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Fat: 55.48g | Prot: 115.55g | Carb: 173.95g.
Breakfast: Young Green Onions, Granny Smith Apples, Tumaro's Multi Grain Low in Carbs Gourmet Tortillas, Bragg Nutritional Yeast Seasoning, Olive Oil, Egg White, Red Hot Chili Peppers. Lunch: Tuna salad, Food For Life Baking Company Ezekiel 4:9 Flax Sprouted Whole Grain Bread. Dinner: Eckrich Skinless Turkey Smoked Sausage, Olive Oil, Cabbage. Snacks/Other: MuscleTech Platinum Casein, Orange Marmalade, Food For Life Baking Company Ezekiel 4:9 Flax Sprouted Whole Grain Bread, Goats Cheese (Soft), Strawberries, Granny Smith Apples. more...
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2848 kcal
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Activities & Exercise:
Bicycling (moderate) - 13/mph - 1 hour, Resting - 15 hours, Sleeping - 8 hours. more...
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gaining 1.0 lb a week
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What your co-worker just described the WRONG type of guy. They both Basically explained to you that they are superficial and controlling. They need to grow up or dare I say - need to Man up because they aren't real men. They have no clue on how to treat a woman - they are looking for insecure little girls to date so they feel needed.
08 Jun 16 by member: jorge loco
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You're a strong, independent woman who don't NEED no man... The beauty of diversity is that not everyone likes the same things. Your coworker is delusional if he thinks there is just one type out there. How many people would be unhappy if that were true? You do you and don't worry about what anyone else thinks. If you're happy with yourself, that will attract the kind of guys you want and deserve. Confidence is beauty and the BEST girls are tom boys.
-TomBoySinceDayOne
08 Jun 16 by member: cryan08
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I agree! If you are your best self, then that is good for you, single or not.
08 Jun 16 by member: abbadabba
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phil.. mollycoddle milksop?? bhwahahahahahaha
08 Jun 16 by member: redgirl1974
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You just need to find a guy who can handle you in all of your strength and beauty!
08 Jun 16 by member: izzypup68
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your co-worker is a WIMP !!!
When you find the way how to get out of the "funk",PLEASE let me know,because i'm in the same limbo lol
08 Jun 16 by member: tute75
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Mollycoddle milksop = Wimp, Tute gave you the condensed version. I enjoy obscure insults, recreational phiology, as it were.
08 Jun 16 by member: 1point21gigawatts
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Notlaine, feel free to delete this comment like the rest of mine. But listen here. Your friend is an idiot. This is no longer the 50's and 60's. Guys don't care of you make more than them, not all of us dislike Tomboys and girls that ride bikes. And if you attracted a man then he OBVIOUSLY likes you for YOU. Stop listening to what other people tell you. Listen to your heart. Ok, you can delete this now since I know you still most likely don't like me.
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Please don't send that buffoon EAST as someone suggested.
08 Jun 16 by member: Sarah1950
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"Mollycoddle milksop" - Phil, just nearly spit out my coffee at that!! I need to write that down to use in the future. Fantastic.
09 Jun 16 by member: notelaine
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Also, to clear something up since I got a couple messages lecturing me that guys are allowed to have preferences, I don't disagree with that. I don't care if a guy is more attracted to tiny, ultra-feminine women. That's fine. But the problem is him telling me that I need to be that way. Besides, life would be boring if we were all the same.
09 Jun 16 by member: notelaine
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Do not listen to that bs! I think you sound awesome! Always be true to yourself and the right person comes along when you least expect it. I can't believe he said that to you.... I guess you now know exactly what makes him feel insecure :^P
09 Jun 16 by member: Bearybeans
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Your weight gain is unimpressive. That guy is a twat. Your co-worker is projecting. And you are awesome. #letsgo!
09 Jun 16 by member: jimmiepop
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Meet a guy in B-school who's going places as you are!
09 Jun 16 by member: kpwcalories
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Personally, I think you're as cute as a bug. People are different, but then in this culture, all men are supposed to look like Hasselhoff in Baywatch and all women are supposed to look like... that's idiocy. I'm just glad I look like Hasselhoff. ;)
09 Jun 16 by member: northernmusician
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Mollycoddle doo-dah-day!! hahaha I knew a guy/he liked to cry/he wore his mama's panties too/Out of the blue/with no words left to say... Mollycoddle doo-dah-day! lol Everyone has opinions, subjective preferences as they were, and they're all worth their weight in snail snot, amirite?
09 Jun 16 by member: 1point21gigawatts
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Powerful women need powerful men who can accept them as equals, if they are that insecure....throw them back...way to small to keep, keep fishing you will hook one that's worth fighting to reel in!
09 Jun 16 by member: debrafrederick
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You are stunningly beautiful Notelaine! NM, Hasselfoff? Yuck, Now let me admire a man who looks like M Shadows. LOL
09 Jun 16 by member: Sugar Waffle
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Me myself.....I love me some Sam Elliot :)
09 Jun 16 by member: debrafrederick
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I do not do well when I don't log my food!
09 Jun 16 by member: Lakeontario
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