You know.. we woman, we are much harder on ourselves that anyone else in the world would be... Get up, brush yourself off, and go again! It seems to be my montra for the past 9 years (since my divorce), I seem to be brushing my knees off all of the time! Let's go, let's take a long look at our long term and short term goals and take it one day at a time, not weeks at a time. You've lost 20 lbs in a very short time, we're here for you, reach out and we'll help! Chin up, let's go!