Yearofhealth2023's Journal, 29 June 2024

Well distribution happened yesterday and they were nastier than even i thought they would be. What is wrong with people? Hubs cut them out of his life 2 years prior to MIL passing due to their ugly toxic behavior. They put his mom in such a terrible position saying they wanted reconciliation but how do you reconcile with a person who lies, manipulates, demeans and brings up things from over 20 years ago (hubs alcoholism in which he has been sober 23 years from) in order to just provoke pain. I dont understand. Yes, yes, this is not the forum for this post i get it it’s probably more of a journal for me to see what was happening in my/our life. Hubs came home upset, hurt again and angry. He kept calm and attempted to diffuse the mean things that were being said to him which probably infuriated one of them even more. It’s done. Estate distributed. Toxic people gone for now. They are his family so if he chooses to reconcile i will be civil as i have managed to for near 18 years but i think there is a special place for greedy, manipulative mean people and it is not in or lives. I know there is some jealousy over the great love between his dad and himself as there was jealousy over the relationship i had with their dad. One of them flat out told me so 9 years ago. Stupid. They could have worked on a better relationship but didnt. Just because one is related by blood does not a family always make. Big sigh here. He deserves so much better. It seems that we are the ones who have always picked up the freight when anyone in the family needed help but i am done as is he. Thank God.

136.0 lb Lost so far: 91.0 lb.    Still to go: 1.0 lb.    Diet followed reasonably well.

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762 kcal

Fat: 26.75g | Prot: 51.80g | Carb: 71.00g.   Lunch: Culinary Circle Shaved Parmesan Cheese, Newman's Own Light Balsamic Vinaigrette, Dole Romaine Lettuce, Kirkland Signature Chicken Breast, Kirkland Signature Chicken Breast, Baked Sweetpotato (Peel Eaten, Fat Added in Cooking). Snacks/Other: Lindt Lindor Truffle Balls. more...

1762 kcal

Activities & Exercise: Walking (brisk) - 4/mph - 1 hour, Resting - 15 hours, Sleeping - 8 hours. more...