ObeseToBeast123's Journal, 16 June 2024

destinyWprecious please don't try to analyze my 15 year relationship and 12 year marriage with my wife. I'm sorry your ex boyfriend wasn't supportive of you and chose to support other women instead. this is not the case at all for me in fact my wife has told me she likes that I have found the fat secret community. I have received and given support as well as made freindships with members of both sexs and all ages from around the world on here. We push each other to do better and be better each day. 

OTB keep doing what you are doing. Don't let these depressing women try to make you feel bad. Doesn't matter if you are married or single this site is focused on weight loss and getting healthy.  

Please leave me alone your outlandish comments are unwanted you are projecting your own negative experiences onto others...  

Well here comes the race card nonsense.sorry I am so tired of hearing this bullshit everywhere I go that shit is old and tired get that shit out of here. 

Posting on FS regularly does not necessarily = success. There are plenty of dieters here that go through the motions of tracking, weighing, journaling and uploading photos — and they’re still obese. Some people are more private, and that’s okay! I’ve noticed some people only weigh in for months, then post a journal when they make goal. @OTB, I know your wife is present because she’s taking all the pictures. I love that about your family. She has our support if/when she wants it 💚 

I've seen lots of threads go off the rails here but how a few pictures of my family e joying our father's day along with a delicious healthy plate of food turned into this is beyond me. not that it matters but I've posted 3 pictures in the past 30 days with my wife in them and anyone who as been following me for awhile has seen me on two different occasions post her progress pictures on My account because of how proud I am of what she has accomplished... unbelievable  

mountainman2 right? where did that even come from🤦‍♂️ 

Clara thank you 

JustBananas thank you for the support I've seen you supporting my posts all the time and always check back on your journal to see if you posted any updates since you january goal post. hope everything is going well with you! 

Some people can't help it 

Ditto on what Bananas said in her comment. 

Destiny, I don't think its a race issue. I just think you crossed the line when you gave your opinion on his marriage. To be honest with you, if I was in OTB shoes, and you made the same criticism towards me and my wife, I would be offended by it as well. I don't think its proper to make assumptions on how someone's wife is feeling esp if you don't know them personally. Just my opinion though. Wishing you the best in your fitness journey.  

Looks like a great day and fun was had by all!! 

Glad you got to spend quality time with your family. 

OTB don’t give it a second thought. The second I saw the comment I knew this was not going to go well. Just move past it. We all know your wife and we all know you support her and have encouraged her over and over. It was a bad assumption. People just have to find their own time and their own way…no spouse can force either one or the other, we all have to work it out ourselves. We appreciate you buddy and know that you are the number one family of FatSecret that means you, your wife and your kids. You all have a bond that set a great example for us all. ❤️ 

I love the irony of someone questioning if fat secret is a safe place yet at the same time felt the need to bring up my wife's weight in the first place. Very sad that this person has that little respect for herself and others.  

Or they’re a troll. The language and the anger remind me of an oaty double booty cats pyjamas chick who also goes by Cindy.  

Kat 🤣🤣🤣🤣 

nah I never had a problem with oats the whey protein pancake  

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