I am so sorry Sonja. It sounds like you did an awesome job to me. Especially given the situation. After my Mom died, I gained 20 lbs in a month, so be careful and remember it would not please your Grandfather to respond to this by allowing yourself to eat unhealthily. **** You can look up "Fried Chicken, skin not eaten" in the food diary and check the calories that way to see what you saved by removing the skin. Also, KFC mashed potatoes are in the system too.
**** You are SO right about God giving us strength. Was your Grandfather a Christian? God has a plan for this painful experience, learn from it and glorify Him through it & He will greatly bless you with His peace that passes all understanding.