yfritz's Journal, 30 December 2022

Asakusa is a district in Tokyo known for its down-to-earth, old time vibes. I never liked the area. It’s oversaturated with tourists and shops that sell worthless tchotchkes nobody should ever want. The town was destroyed by the air raid in WWII, and although it boasts 1,400 year history, what it presents is mostly a post-war landscape. People love to call the district a symbol of rebirth. “Rebirth,” I sneered, unable to shake off my contempt towards the town that shamelessly panders to the whim of foreign visitors, gratifying every inch of their fantasy at the expense of our true sensitivity and aesthetics. The main street is lined with rickshaws for heaven’s sake. Rickshaws? How kitschy.

Nevertheless, I ended up in Asakusa because Google indicated that there I might be able to find a craftsman who still possesses the gumption to repair an ihai case, which is an integral part of the family altar that houses the mortuary tablets of the ancestors and the recently deceased. Ours is falling apart. My brother’s mortuary tablet is among others’s inside. The tablet bore his after-life name and it felt strange to read that he was no longer my little brother Yakkun.
I walked a lot past two weeks looking for someone who would be willing to repair the ihai. I went to several places except Asakusa. Repairing Buddhist articles is a thankless work and no one was interested. They all wanted me to buy a new altar. The rejection struck me as curiously heartless. Japanese are forever boasting their allegiance to the old way of life, yet in reality they seemed to have succumbed to the modern culture of efficiency. I was not convinced and decided to walk toward Asakusa, to see if the tradition was still intact as the town claims, to see if I could find a true old-school artisan who takes pride in his craftsmanship.

So here I was in Asakusa, to be precise I was in the older part of the town away from the touristy areas. I spotted a tiny obscure Buddhist store sandwiched between more prominent, franchised Buddhist establishments. I opened the old sliding door and inquired if they would look at my broken article. The proprietor didn’t even look at it, he simply declared “of course I can fix it.” He was indignant, as if to say my question was insulting. “We’ve been around, lady.” His indignation made me chuckle. “Sir,” I said, “so far everyone refused to repair it. I went to several places” “They are lazy pieces of shit, did you go to my neighbors first before you came to me?” “No, they didn’t look promising, I didn’t bother.” My answer pleased him and he started to warm up to me. “Now you found me. Well done, let me see what you’ve got,” said he. He took the ihai and handled it ever so gently as one would a newborn child. His compassion moved me. He was an old-school artisan who never forgot why we cared about mortuary tablets. In olden days, say amidst of the wartime firebombing for example, people ran back into the burning houses to retrieve them before salvaging any other household items, he never forgot that, and he instantly understood why I walked miles and miles before locating him.

My view of Asakusa changed after that. I decided to drop some US dollars like a real tourist and did quite a few touristy things, just to experience the genuine warmth and kindness its people claim to provide. I ate Anmitsu with a congenial old lady. Bought beautiful kon-peki chopsticks. At a kimono rental salon, the friendly hairdresser and I had a grand time. She was attentive, taking utmost care to dress me. “Who is going to take your picture?” She asked. “Nobody. I’m here alone.” “That’s a pity. Don’t worry. Ask one of those rickshaw brothers to take pictures. I know, I know, they are a bit rowdy, a bit much really, but they are good people. They wouldn’t mind.” And I believe her. I have no doubt those rickshaw guys are good people and would not have minded doing me a little favor, moreover, I believe they would have addressed me in the term of endearment I have not heard since my brother’s death.

Sensoji, Asakusa Tokyo, est. 645AD
金龍山浅草寺

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Beautifully written 
30 Dec 22 by member: Jamie_D
Thank you Jamie, you made it all happen. Now go to sleep😴💋🤗💕 
30 Dec 22 by member: yfritz
Wow beautifully written and beautiful photos. Assuming you’re the gorgeous woman in the photo? Hard to tell with the mask 
30 Dec 22 by member: cindylynnwho
Cindy, yes it’s me. Masks are still 100% enforced here😷 Many establishments continue to make you sanitize hands and check temp before entering. 
30 Dec 22 by member: yfritz
Senyoreta Ninja,ara amb el Furisode, no es menge he de cridar-te, però la veritat, et queda molt bé, ho llueixes.👘⛩️ 
30 Dec 22 by member: yago-Santiago
Yago, aquest quimono es diu "houmongi". Sóc massa gran per portar un furisode amb mànigues llargues i balancejants. Els quimonos són bastant específics per a l'edat. 
30 Dec 22 by member: yfritz
YF Vaja quasi ho encerte, com hi ha tanta varietat, 👘😃 
30 Dec 22 by member: yago-Santiago
Bona nit, demà mes amiga.🛏️ 
30 Dec 22 by member: yago-Santiago
No és el més còmode de portar. Vaig caminar molt amb el quimono. L'endemà vaig dormir 12 hores🤣👘 
30 Dec 22 by member: yfritz
Bona nit Yago😴💕 
30 Dec 22 by member: yfritz
Thank you for the good story. 
30 Dec 22 by member: Riffleriver
Riffleriver thank you for visiting. Happy New Year’s Eve and good luck on your journey🎉💕 
30 Dec 22 by member: yfritz
Once again I'm tearing up as I read your story. You write in a way that makes me feel as if I'm looking over your shoulder. ❤ 
30 Dec 22 by member: SherryeB
Sherrye💕 noooo don’t cry on the New Year’s Eve! You and your hubby had an amazing year, didn’t you? I am still excited about your new found love for the gym. It’s soooo cute, your life evolves around the gym! I wish you an even more successful year in 2023.  
30 Dec 22 by member: yfritz
You look great in Japanese kimono👘👍 
30 Dec 22 by member: Jo Bitoh.s
Jo Bitohさん、日本のかたですか?着物は浅草でレンタルいたしました、楽しいので、貴方も一度お試しください。大晦日ですね、明日が良いお正月でありますように。あけおめ! (←これが言いたかった🤣)⛩️🧧🎉 
30 Dec 22 by member: yfritz
yfritz@ I'm Japanese🤗In the past, I used to wear a kimono on festival days too😜 あけおめ❗️⛩🎍It's a day early, but you can say happy words anytime👍 
31 Dec 22 by member: Jo Bitoh.s
Jo, then you’re my bro⛩️🎍 Happy New Year! 私は既にお雑煮を浅草でいただきました(柚子のかをり😍) 昨日は明治神宮でお参りも済ませました。おせちは面倒なのでたぶんパス😂 
31 Dec 22 by member: yfritz
yfritz@ OSECHI is troublesome😂We are indeed friends👍Happy New Year⛩ 
31 Dec 22 by member: Jo Bitoh.s
How beautiful you are, in your kimono! 
31 Dec 22 by member: shirfleur 1

     
 

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