It wouldn't matter if you were a swimsuit model -- this fiancé is reclaiming her man, so she is coming out with guns a-blasting. He's just appeasing her by sending you the required mean texts. It sucks to be dumped with so much fireworks, but shake it off. Now you can focus on you, on your health, on reclaiming the bikini body in your profile pic. 💛💚💛
18 Oct 22 by member: JustBananas
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she’s an idiot to marry him
18 Oct 22 by member: mia.jones17
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He is a bad man, you don't need that person in your life, he is a cheater and doesn't care about women. He has many problems and I bet he enjoys and gets a "stroke" to his ego when this type of thing goes on. I hope you block them both from your phone. Believe in your heart that you deserve someone that is kind, considerate and won't drag your heart through the mud and disrespect you. Work on making you feel worthwhile and that you deserve someone that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Be strong and believe in yourself and know that no matter what the size you deserve someone that will love and care for you. Those people are out there and just waiting for someone to love and respect them too. Take Care
18 Oct 22 by member: Little Red Fox
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Please let him go because without trust issues you'll never be happy and you don't deserve it. I've been though it and know first hand that it will drain you.
18 Oct 22 by member: QueenGrace2you
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Oh man - I am so sorry, but I love your perserverance in the face of all this! Please know that you have plenty of FS friends who only want the best, and will cheer you on when you succeed! Count me as one of them😘
18 Oct 22 by member: Toni Bourlon
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I am glad that people can post this kind of thing here and find support. I would love to add to the chorus of folks who will read your message and lift you up. It hurts when someone doesn't choose you. And this case I am sure does not feel good. But what a confused person you just found yourself free from... I am so sorry this happened to you. Human beings deserve happiness. I am glad you are free of someone who would only kill your fire. And I am sending you the best vibes I am able...
18 Oct 22 by member: unity1234
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sounds to me like she's the one with the problem. feel sorry for him, he has to deal with that psycho on a daily basis. unless she's lying which seems totally plausible in this case
18 Oct 22 by member: SheaDlady
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Sounds like you have come across a Casanova Narcissist and his main supply. You are well off out of it. Leave them to their toxic relationship and do not contact them again.
18 Oct 22 by member: Amb El Gos
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Good riddance, you deserve so much better.💜
18 Oct 22 by member: shirfleur 1
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two cheaters found each other. may they live happily never after. proud of you and consider yourself lucky.
18 Oct 22 by member: Katsolo
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Keep your head up and thrive.
Too many toxic people in the world to slow you down.
More than anything they sound to be childish, can't get past high-school.
So sorry to hear though, much better without.
18 Oct 22 by member: joeishc
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Oh hun I’m so sorry! I know how that feels as it’s been done to me (as about my acne, I was ugly etc rather than heavy). I hope you truly realize that what they said wasn’t really about you. It was just to make themselves feel better and it’s not true! You are a beautiful woman inside and out. I wouldn’t call you ‘fat’ but rather a bit overweight and maybe not even that! I’m straight up and down so I’d love your curves!
Ignore those people. You are much nicer than they are. You deserve so much better than that man child!
18 Oct 22 by member: peeperjj
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I'm sorry you have to go through this...one thing that struck me in your post is that the fiance is basically blaming you..doesn't she realize her " man" cheated on her? she is blaming you and not putting any responsibility on him....
18 Oct 22 by member: Diana 1234
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Dear God that is terrible. I am so sorry you were put through this.
18 Oct 22 by member: cindylynnwho
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I thought you were describing my ex husband for a moment. Hold your head high.
18 Oct 22 by member: RavNh3d
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That's terrible. You're right that she just said the ugliest stuff she could think of to hurt you. Love your attitude about this! You're a queen.
18 Oct 22 by member: C0bby
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Sorry to hear that they tried to run your special day. Plan a day all to yourself, turn off your phone.
18 Oct 22 by member: coffeelush8
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Hold your head up. You're a queen!! She's the stupid one.
18 Oct 22 by member: Bfaya
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So she is going to marry this cheater… consider yourself lucky … I think you totally just dodged a bullet
18 Oct 22 by member: Stephenalton
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I’m so sorry this happened to you. Sounds like they deserve each other, and you are worth so much more.
18 Oct 22 by member: mcat1754
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