Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear. When it rains, it definitely pours. You always have support here! I hope everything gets better for you soon <3
25 Mar 14 by member: PepperMill
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You poor thing :( that sounds horrific. We're all here for you although we can't fix the financial hopefully we can all make you feel a little better. *cyber cuddle* don't give up we're all routing for you :)
25 Mar 14 by member: Loociieemoo
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Hugs to you. It will get better. Know it. Believe it.
25 Mar 14 by member: 2ManyCurves
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Hugs to you! The sun will shine on you again. Keep your head up. Things will get better and we are all here to support you.
25 Mar 14 by member: springskinny
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Thank you so much for the supporting comments. I really don't know where else to turn but here. You are all such a wonderful support system. I will be ok, I just want to breathe easy again. I am really just worried about not having power, that is going to be challenging to do my school work when I am in candle light, but it will be ok. I just have to keep telling myself that.
25 Mar 14 by member: wallisrox
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things will get better, hang in there
25 Mar 14 by member: wholefoodnut
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You can make it through this! I feel similarly about finances. That's why I'm trying so hard to get a degree. Perhaps you could tell your partner how you feel exhausted from carrying his burden. He may be more sympathetic than you expect!
25 Mar 14 by member: Babalon
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I know it all seems very overwhelming at the moment, but it is always our resistance to what is that causes all the suffering. Sounds like you're better off in the long run without having your ex's burdens on top of yours. The electricity can feel like a big cloud over your head, but there are candles, and lots of places with wifi for a few days. Kind of like camping... :-) The relief from stress is always right there when we just let go of how be believe things are supposed to be, and relax into the acceptance of the reality of the moment. Reality is always kinder than our thoughts about it. When we just let go and allow life to take us where it always will, things open up in ways one couldn't imagine. There are infinite possibilities - give your attention to the ones you want to see happen! Go ahead and vent until you can relax into what is. Intending the highest good for you and all concerned! <3 <3 <3
25 Mar 14 by member: Paleodiva
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Very sorry for your situation! Keep your chin up and your head in the game, it will get better it always does.
25 Mar 14 by member: Annabelle3117
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Just hang in there! Every gray cloud has a silver lining.Just remember to take care of yourself in this time of crisis.You definitely have support here.
25 Mar 14 by member: fatpolice
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I'm so sorry; I feel your pain; it'll get better!
25 Mar 14 by member: Tulipgirl6
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I am so sorry that you are in pain. I've been there..and I'm here for you.
Take care of yourself.
25 Mar 14 by member: Tidygirl
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breathe...it will get better promise
25 Mar 14 by member: laurenwisswell82
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there is a light at the end of the tunnel and you can look at it this way your tunnel just got shorter as you have gained money that you would have put out for his burdens.
25 Mar 14 by member: Abbytown
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You don't face anything in life that you can't handle and come out stronger for going through. You'll wake up a stronger person, able to handle more than you ever thought you could. Better and worse are often subjective. It's life. Life is tough. But you can evolve to match it, and come out stronger than ever.
25 Mar 14 by member: rob92183
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There are always bumps in the road. You have a long journey ahead and this bump my rattle you, but it won't stop you from moving on! You can do it!
25 Mar 14 by member: Sheanaj
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Very sorry to hear about your break up, and that financial woes are making things worse as well. You are strong and will get through this hard time and come out better for it. I do hope the journey is short and that things improve soon.
26 Mar 14 by member: megmonster
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I'm so sorry :( I know what it's like to be at both ends of that stick, and I can guarantee you that things can only get better from here on out. And if anything, you'll come out a stronger person for it.
Stick to your guns, have a glass of wine, and look for something that makes you laugh. It's so cliche, but laughter can really be the best medicine sometimes. And a good cry, let it all out - volcanoes eventually erupt, you should get that out of the way as soon as possible.
Good luck x
26 Mar 14 by member: Tamzen
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You will be OK! Each day brings about a change. Let the healing begin. Work on you and get cute. So when you see him, he will be begging to get back with you and you just turn your head and walk away (out of love, let someone else take care of him).
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05 Apr 14 by member: laydeedonrae
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