rgaDawg's Journal, 19 October 2019

Possible thoughts for the Day.

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. - Will Durant

Make good habits, they're as hard to break as bad ones.

From Article, How to Form New Habits That Matter, Darius Foroux
https://forge.medium.com/how-i-form-new-habits-646a45c30126

Habits change your life, but they do not guarantee success.. correlation isn’t causation.. So when I talk about habits, I don’t talk about outcomes. I talk about changing our actual behavior so that it improves the quality of our lives.. Only you can decide what a good habit is — for you.. Before trying to adopt a new habit, ask yourself this: “Will doing this improve the quality of my life?” For a new habit to stick, we need a reason to change. And it can’t just be a superficial reason.

From Article, Feeling Stuck Is an Illusion, Brianna Wiest
https://humanparts.medium.com/we-become-addicted-to-familiar-patterns-and-thats-what-sabotages-our-lives-19fb19c46039

Think of stories of captive baby elephants, who are sometimes chained to trees when they’re young. As adults, they are freed from their bindings but still spend their lives hovering around their home base. The irony? As they mature, even just a bit, they possess the brute force to rip the tree out from its roots and free themselves. But they don’t. They may have tried this when they were babies and failed, so the optics of the chains convince them they’re still incapable.. The problem is not that we are stuck. It’s that we become obsessed with familiar patterns, and that’s what sabotages our lives.. The cruel trick of life is that as long as we are hovering near the tree we were once chained to (to use the elephant metaphor again), there will always be a gnawing sense that we are missing out and not quite doing all that we are meant to do. . But know this: You do not sabotage your life because you are stupid. You do not sabotage your life because you don’t know what you want. You do not sabotage your life because you are incapable. You sabotage your life when you become so used to your own familiar patterns that you fail to find the strength to endure the discomfort of breaking them.

Diet Calendar Entries for 19 October 2019:
3243 kcal Fat: 106.46g | Prot: 176.29g | Carb: 400.43g.   Breakfast: Boiled Egg, Morning Coffee. Lunch: Ride Smoothie w/ Beet Juice, HEB Apple Juice. Dinner: Chicken Vegetable Noodle Soup, Organic Protein Chocolate. Snacks/Other: Grapes, No Cow Non Dairy Bar, Bananas, Boiled Egg. more...
4321 kcal Activities & Exercise: Ride, 2200 cals - 3 hours and 45 minutes, Watching TV/Computer - 6 hours, Resting - 6 hours and 15 minutes, Sleeping - 8 hours. more...

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Thanks for posting this. It makes total sense! 
19 Oct 19 by member: Miraculum
Another Medium.com gem! 
19 Oct 19 by member: Miraculum
Yep. Most of us are prisoners in our own Stockholm Syndrome. 
19 Oct 19 by member: FullaBella
Next time I don't want to get out of bed and go to the gym I'm going to tell my self to pull the tree out of the ground. 
19 Oct 19 by member: Lajoh228
I love this! Elephant scenario hits close to home and I continually try to make sure that my decisions are not based on fear of failure. And I may fail but at least I won’t have nothing but regrets.  
19 Oct 19 by member: CrashtestDawnie
Wow 😮 so much truth in this post! Great! Excellent post Rgadawg  
19 Oct 19 by member: rosio19
“We are what we repeatedly do” 💕 
19 Oct 19 by member: rosio19
Great post❣️ 
19 Oct 19 by member: moopie321
I agree! 
19 Oct 19 by member: smoothygirl
Thank you for posting this! Definitely will store this in my memory because I have to break several bad habits... 
23 Oct 19 by member: levsieryy
Great poat 
05 Nov 19 by member: sbflow

     
 

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