Wholefoodnut. I don't talk about personal stuff everywhere. only here. People is really mean and they can use what they know about you to destroy you. 😐
30 Aug 19 by member: Keilin_4
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Fatoldlady, I can talk back, what I am not good at is to start a conversation. I am scared to talk
in front of a crowd. And yes, alcohol is a great help. People likes me too, my first day in a job will be horrible, but after that day everything will be great, that makes me realize that I am creating a big problem in my head for nothing. I just don't know how to control it. .
30 Aug 19 by member: Keilin_4
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Fingernails? Who were you talking to, Chris?
30 Aug 19 by member: Keilin_4
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Peeperjj, I also want to run after saying "Hello, how are you? I am great, thanks! . I avoid talking with people too. I know a lot of people, but I have had just very little real friends, just the ones I feel comfortable with. I have moved a few times, so , right now I have no friends near me.
30 Aug 19 by member: Keilin_4
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When I was pregnant with my twins, I was looking for names for them on the bible, and I didn't find nobody perfect there, so they don't have a biblical name 🤷♀️😂😂
30 Aug 19 by member: Keilin_4
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30 Aug 19 by member: Keilin_4
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Well, chris you make me feel better, I am not the only one crazy 🤗😜
30 Aug 19 by member: Keilin_4
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Hahaha, I like to think that everyone here is crazy, so I feel good about myself. 🤗😂
30 Aug 19 by member: Keilin_4
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Good night, I have to get up early tomorrow, I will be driving half of my day. 😐🤯
30 Aug 19 by member: Keilin_4
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All crazy? Why not... But we be losing weight, so it's kinda ok...?
30 Aug 19 by member: yohoyoh
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Hi, Keilin! I suffer from social anxiety, too. It has been negatively impacting my life a lot recently, so I have been researching solutions. I read about something called rejection therapy that you might look into. Exposure therapy worked well with me in the past. Social anxiety workbooks also exist. If you find something that works well for you, please update us! You’re not alone!
31 Aug 19 by member: princess jumbalaya
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Lol I’m crazy half the time so I can go with that. Here’s something that may help: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fixing-families/201903/quick-guide-cognitive-behavioral-therapy-cbt
I’m slowly trying to do this... when I remember that is. Irrational anxiety sucks.
31 Aug 19 by member: peeperjj
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Keilin... This is maybe something for a message. I'll try to keep it short. Perfection is not the means to get to heaven. That's why Christ is our salvation. He died for us because there was no way for anyone to be sinless. You are saved by HIS blood. I hope your church isn't teaching you anything else. When I had a bad anxiety problem I started telling myself similar things. You are fine. You need a relationship with Christ, not perfection. Yes we should all strive to be Christ -like in our actions but perfection will not come for us...even those we consider most righteous, until we die. ❤️😘
31 Aug 19 by member: davidsprincess
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31 Aug 19 by member: Kenna Morton
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Do you need new friends? I have like 2 and I'm totally content with that. :)
31 Aug 19 by member: immort777
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LOL Immort. My 14 yr old said "I only have like 3 friends" I said- Well that's 3 more than I have-. hahaha. I mean really- it's quality- not quantity. I have many acquaintances I enjoy seeing on occasion but only a few who KNOW me. ;)
31 Aug 19 by member: davidsprincess
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I don't know if this will help, and that this can be applied to you, but in my case it was magnesium deficiency. It took 4 years, taking magnesium chloride, every day, to resolve my social anxiety, it took 2 years just to start noticing changes, for the better. I started taking the magnesium to sleep better, but in time, it resolved a lot of health problems for me, including the social anxiety.
My social anxiety was so bad, i was avoiding people, as much as possible, but not any more.
I hope this will help.
31 Aug 19 by member: proba01
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I don't get very close to people will talk to anyone. Guess that's how I grew up before internet to keep in touch. My dad was transferred every couple years so we were always moving somewhere new.
31 Aug 19 by member: wholefoodnut
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I have experienced social anxiety my entire life. At the age of 32 I graduated college which was a struggle because of the anxiety. I am now a social worker. We can overcome!
31 Aug 19 by member: Jamie Lynn P
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There are anti anxiety meds that work wonderfully for people. It can change your life. Anxiety is a medical disorder which needs to be dealt with. People give advice to no avail. It's like treating any other illness. Don't hesitate to ask for help from professionals who understand the problem......it's your life.
31 Aug 19 by member: sandyavery37
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