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i will be making some changes in the next few days. it's hard for me to see the same old comments, and excuses i see on fs everyday. if you're not serious about getting fit and healthy, rather fronting and playing the "i don't know what happened" game it's not helping you, or me, because i need serious people to turn to, not a bunch of cheaters.
i get amazing support from my group, but sometimes it's hard sticking to one group and seeing the same people every single day. sometimes i just want to see how other people are getting to goal, or what is working for them, but what i am finding is that there are just maybe one or two people outside my group who really want to be here and are losing, so i don't really venture out.
it would be nice, if others took note of what their group is actually doing in regards to helping them lose weight, maybe there would be more successful groups that actually had real live participants, not a large number with the same 2 people piping in.
i was one of those idiots who joined a monster group, but how were they helping anyone lose weight? how are the moderators helping anyone make goal if they can't do it themselves? how many posts do you see from the all the members of your group? none, because they quit the first day. does your group care if you come or go? that to me is the difference between beating this, and letting it beat you.
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