A little too much togetherness can wreak havoc. Esp if you can imagine how he must be feeling about the loss too (lots of emotional baggae for you both). But there's hope. Definitely don't lose yourself in all this and make room for your food choices, etc. It will work out...no worries. :)
24 May 14 by member: LuC2
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I can relate, my friend, for I too can find myself out of sorts when DH is around. I have such a nice routine when on my own, which I have been quite a bit over the years as he works long hours & travels. Hang in there, and do try to take care of you too -- you're worth it! xoxox
24 May 14 by member: Ruhu
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2 ex's that sabotaged most things so I understand... been there when they lost jobs as well. Tough times so hang in there, don't lose yourself though like I did. It's taken a long time to find that person again..not sure if I'm there yet.
24 May 14 by member: wholefoodnut
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Be kind to yourself, and don't beat yourself up, either. It is very hard when that one person, who you think would be in support of your endeavors, is unkind and tries to undermine your efforts. He is the one who is unhappy, insecure and immature. Love yourself and know we are here to support you.
24 May 14 by member: Baja Barb
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It is not always easy, but when one notice positive results it motivates me to push on.
24 May 14 by member: janjacgilbert
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Thank you everyone! I'm feeling really down today; and angry; and not making much progress in the past few weeks . . . . so thanks for the kind and caring words! Maybe it'll carry me to tomorrow and tomorrow will be a better day and week!
24 May 14 by member: Tulipgirl6
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You will get through these tough times, have faith in yourself. Every day is a new beginning. Do not punish or comfort yourself with food, listen to music, exercise, or just go for a brisk walk instead... just hang on.
24 May 14 by member: AilaOne
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Exactly just hang in there u can do it. Advise: don't blame your husband or friends. We make our own choices. Be assertive......positive...u can do it. Remember there will always be food....stick to your goal...dream..clothes you will be able to wear. When people try to get u to eat the wrong thing u don't have 2 do it. It is YOUR body. May a God bless u & give u strength through this hard time.
24 May 14 by member: Maria Chaves
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Definitely all about choices but sometimes it's so hard to make the right and best choice.
25 May 14 by member: wholefoodnut
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Hey Tulip: The ones we love the most are the ones that are able to impact us the most. I understand so well your frustration and anger (been there and done that). Keep the focus and remember that you must be good to yourself ... do not be derailed by anyone or anything - it will be the best gift you can give to you!
29 May 14 by member: JennBuck61
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