I'm a 32-year-old hipster restaurant manager. I'm getting hitched in a year, and shucks oh dear, I want to look hot in my dress. I'm tired of the self-loathing, up-and-downing, anxiety, insomnia and high blood pressure. I realize that losing weight is hard, so so hard, and that I need a community of supporters around me to do it. I have all the tools now. Let's help each other reach our goals.