I am a 35 year old mother of 3 beautiful, healthy children. Erik is 11, Taylor is 5, and Sammi is 2 and 1/2. My husband, Jason, and I have been married for 6 years (I was married previously which is when I had my Erik) . . . I didn't really have trouble with my weight until my senior year at college (and even then I wasn't real heavy). I looked AMAZING in 1995 when I met my 1st husband (160 pounds). . . within 4 months I was pregnant and 4 months after that we were married. I gained 60+ pounds carrying my son . . . and never really lost it. After we separated I lost some of it . . . and felt better about myself. When I met my current husband I looked pretty good . . . but I was way TOO comfortable and since then have had 2 more children and have ballooned up to my heaviest of 238 ~ now I weigh 221.