Well what can i say... i recently had a baby and have put on quite a bit of weight. My partner left me and is now chasing young fit slim ladies. I cant compete and feel like crap. Yes i know i have postnatal depression too but i have to lose some of this weight as i am so ashamed of how i look.

Wow that is what i put in 2008 and i am in the same position in 2013. He came 'back' later on in 2008 and he has left again (Nov 2012) and i have put on more weight, except since he left i cant eat and have lost 22lbs. i need a bit of moral support if anyone has any going spare?