I need to lose weight!! I am an overweight mother of 4 very active children. I am struggling to keep up with them (and my fit and energetic fiance) now that I have gained 30 pounds after quitting smoking cigarettes. I am hoping that between Insanity, my job, and changing the way I eat, I will be able to lose the 40 pounds I want to lose. My problem is motivation...I need someone who is in the weight loss tornado I am in and can keep me on a even keel!