is to give all my money and credit cards to my husband. Then my mind settles down and doesn't even think about the possibility any more. It is a great feeling to be relieved of the question, will I break down and have some ice cream. In the middle of the night, I remembered I had some change in my purse that was enuf to buy a little 1.00 cup of ice cream. I left the change out for my husband to take. He knew why. I was so proud of myself because I knew I would be having a good day. Is it this hard for some of us? Yes!