Ruhu's Journal, 24 September 2013

Long day yesterday -- sadly learning about, discussing & coming up with a plan to deal with BIL's substance abuse relapse. I think/hope we (me, DH, SIL & her sister) convinced him that he needs to go back to rehab this morning. Praying that he keeps his promise to do so.

Again, in comparison, it makes me realize how truly blessed I am. My struggles with what/how much to eat pale in comparison, making me ever so much more grateful for this life I love.

I'm off to workout this morning & then am having lunch with MIL & a friend. It would have been her wedding anniversary today (FIL passed away 15 months ago tragically in a truck accident while working for the BIL who has again struggled since) -- they would have been married 58 years.

I'm feeling good, weight is holding steady & I'm back to my gluten, lactose & sugar aware WOE. I'm dappling with IF (Intermittent Fasting) after hearing & reading more about it recently. Any others who have tried it or follow it, I'd love to hear your thoughts, advice, etc.

But before I begin my day, I'll pray --

God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.

Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
Taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
Forever in the next.
Amen.

And throughout this one day and each one meal, moment, bite & emotion, I'll pray, breathe, log, post & express my way. I'm especially grateful again today for each of you & your wonderful, never-ending support, my family & IRL friends, that hopefully BIL will get the help he needs, and more than ever that I am so blessed with the health & wealth to live this life I love. xoxoxo
122.5 lb Lost so far: 5.5 lb.    Still to go: 0 lb.    Diet followed reasonably well.
steady weight

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Sorry to hear about the individual that is suffering from a substance abuse relapse. That's a tough situation and it can affect those folks all around the individual one way or another. I haven't read up yet on the intermittent fasting suggestion. It's a real struggle at times balancing the diet. Good for you in holding your weight steady.  
24 Sep 13 by member: Dianem65
Oh Ruth, I am so sorry to hear of your BIL's issues; hope he can get the help he needs; not only from his family. It is a worry for you and your family. Glad that you are staying your course for your healthy lifestyle despite being upset by this latest glitch. Life always throws us curve balls, doesn't it? Re intermittent fasting - read, if you haven't read already - www.theIFlife.com. It is a great website. I downloaded the ebook and I would be happy to send you a copy. I paid a minimal amount for it and I know we aren't supposed to share these things but shhhhh I won't tell if you won't. There is so much info on the web these days. I truly love IF. I tend to go the other way though and stretch the hours longer and longer. I find it easier to not eat than to eat. I would never have thought that possible but being low carb and not having the carb cravings really helps me with IF. Anyway, I could go on and on and on 'cause I love it. Let me know if you want more info :) And hugs sweetie, sorry we haven't connected 'live' so to speak but I think of you every morning when I first log on hoping I will share a coffee with you. So salut in absentia - hope I spelled that right :) 
24 Sep 13 by member: sarahsmum
Nodding - whenever I think how hard 'we' have to work to keep this eating thing in some semblance of control I remind myself at least it isn't a heart breaking destructive addiction. Ours seems harder but only to us; doesn't usually affect others.  
24 Sep 13 by member: FullaBella
Sorry that your family has to go through that. Am sure your support means a lot to him right now.  
24 Sep 13 by member: BuffyBear
I hope the best for your family. I know an addiction is hard on the whole family, not just the individual. Glad to hear you're doing so well with your eating.  
24 Sep 13 by member: SJacqueline

     
 

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