Ruhu's Journal, 04 June 2013

Not sure how, but I'm still at my goal weight -- no matter how many times I tell myself that its just a # & I'm so much more than that, it still feels good!

We're organizing a family reunion for the 2nd week of July at Lake George, NY for DH's immediate & extended family. All 5 of his siblings, their families, MIL, her 2 sisters & some of his Dad's family are going. DH is the rock of the gang & while I love that about him, much of the burden falls on me. It was what I was so stressed about this past weekend as the delegating to me began for all that needs to be done. He's also an overachiever extraordinaire, meaning they'll be many games, toys, excursions, etc. planned as well as a big party celebrating several birthdays, graduations, etc. They'll be 35-40 of us for the entire week, and 60-70 for the party. Anyway, I almost lost it this weekend over it all, was very stressed at times, but spoke up yesterday to DH & one of his sister's (who I love) but is coming to CT a week early. I was even more stressed at the thought that she, her DH & 3 kids would be staying with us for that week too. We have a summer cottage on a lake nearby that his family, including hers, have used over summers before, so I wanted & did set the stage to have them stay there. I know I'll need that time to get ready for the trip & would be a crazy woman if I try to entertain, feed, etc them & pack, finish organizing, etc with them here... and DH at work! Anyway, I'm feeling much better about it all today & ready to keep building my roadway to healthy eating & living.

So, I'll start my day in prayer --

God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.

Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
Taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
Forever in the next.
Amen.

And, I'll continue to be grateful for all my many blessings over this one day and each one meal, moment, bite & emotion at a time, through which I'll pray, breathe, post and express my way. xoxox
120.0 lb Lost so far: 8.0 lb.    Still to go: 0 lb.    Diet followed reasonably well.
gaining 0.5 lb a week

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Firstly congrats on still being at goal weight. Yes we are more than a number but it does feel good that the number matches how we feel :). Secondly, holy smokes bat man - a party for how many people and you end up 'catering' or organizing it? No wonder you almost lost it on the week-end. I am glad you spoke up to your DH. Its great that's a super achiever, blah blah blah but he's only as good as the person making him look good, and that's you. Also glad you were able to put the people coming early into the cottage. I can feel the stress rising in me and its nothing to do with me. Breathe - that's better. I am sure you will pull it all off. I can see reams of lists in your future. Don't forget to delegate when and where you can and don't forget to keep reminding DH that he owes you BIG time for this! I have to breathe again - in and out - deep breath - sigh, there that's better. Have an awesome day, I am absolutely certain you can do this but I sure wouldn't want to. Hugs. 
04 Jun 13 by member: sarahsmum
Yay on being at goal weight. Secondly you know you shouldn't worry. God is always in control. 
04 Jun 13 by member: iamachristianjesusfreak
Amen! 
04 Jun 13 by member: kristijean
Yes, you are so much more than a number but as long as the number is important to you; it's important. And if it makes you happy it's important. So good on you for being at your goal weight and being happy. The reunion - like Isabel - I found myself tensing up just reading about all those people and guests. Good on you for handling it and taking it all in stride. 
04 Jun 13 by member: FullaBella

     
 

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